I was recently looking through some archives of some old articles I had written years ago. From time to time, I will use reuse some old material that readers of this blog may find helpful. I wrote the following piece for a relationship site a number of years ago, but it is still relevant today as ever. I hope you enjoy…..
The first few months of a promising relationship are always exciting, but inevitably even the best relationships start to slow down as they mature and start to feel like they are falling into a rut. You become habituated to the other person, no matter how interesting or sexy they are, and both of you start to give up to the grind of a daily routine.
Stop.
This will kill your relationship. The death-knell of any good relationship are the words dull, routine, or grind as opposed to fun, sexy, spontaneous, and exciting.
Remember this list of good words and bad words as a quick guide to see whether or if your relationship is on track:
Good Words Bad Words
Fun Boring
Sexy Plain
Spontaneous Routine
Exciting Dull
Get it?
So let’s introduce another concept that will lead to more fun, sexy, spontaneous and exciting times rather than boring, plan, routine, dull ones. Here’s the concept- ANTICIPATION.
This can be a running idea that lasts for the whole day, week, month or year. This is how it works: Put an idea into your partner’s head about something that is going […]